Day 17--Valentine's Banquet

Today was our church's Valentine's Banquet. They do it every year. I went last year as well, but my hubby couldn't attend because he was at home in the bed sick with a stomach bug. Well, this year was a little different. He couldn't go this time either, but for reasons that weren't in his control. He is still in Afghanistan. So, I decided to go with another date....this year I went with my friends, Rhonda and Ashley, both of whom whose husbands are in Afghanistan as well. It was a lovely evening. I got to spend time with my great friends.....Rachel, Paul, Matt, Mandy, Rhonda and Ashley. Thanks everyone for making me smile and laugh tonight!!

Me and my dates, Ashley and Rhonda!

My friends Paul and Rachel have the sweetest little boy ever. Pauly went to his Mom and told her that he wanted to get a special Valentine for Lauran because her Daddy was in Afghanistan and he didn't want her to be sad on Valentine's Day. So, he chose flowers. It was the most precious thing ever. Rachel and Paul are doing a tremendous job in raising him. He is amazing!

My friend Rachel decided to bring me flowers too. Along with the flowers, she gave me a letter. It made me smile and cry at the same time. I have such an amazing best friend in Rachel. Here is what the letter said.

I know that today may be a sad time for you and that I am not the Valentine you were hoping for. However, Valentines Day is a day for LOVE and that you are. There are many people in the world who would all they want is for someone to love and cherish them. Do not think for one moment that just because he is not here, you are not in his world. He might not be able to hold you and tell you it face to face this year, however, his actions are speaking it loud and clear. He is not here because he loves you so much that he is willing to fight for you, and your family, because he wants to provide the best life for you, because he is over there it only means that you are safe right here. You see, you have so much to be happy about today, because your Valentine is full of honor and integrity. The Bible says that there is no greater LOVE than that of a man who lays down his life for his friends. So even God agrees with me that your man could not love you, his best friend, any more or show you in any greater way. I wanted to do something for you today to show you how much I love you and cherish our friendship. I hope that today we can celebrate together our love for one another and our wonderful friendship. I love you!!!

Rachel